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Endless Talk Therapy Is Not My Style

I use a type of therapy that is action-focused, utilizing proven methods for getting into the root causes of what’s occurring in your relationship. We tackle these issues head on, navigating between emotions and thoughts, looking for not only understanding but also...

What is a sexologist?

A sexologist is someone who helps people understand and accept themselves as sexual beings through counseling and education. Sex therapy can be done individually or as a couple. This counseling focuses on your sexuality as an integral part of who you are as a person....

How to Apologize

Have you been apologizing for the same thing over and over again and it never seems like enough? That’s frustrating! You are sorry but your partner is not forgiving you. So what is the problem? Is your partner just a meanie who likes to see you tortured?...

Be a Relationship Champion

A relationship champion is someone who carries a torch for the relationship. They are the ones who are willing to put aside their pride and encourage the other to connect. If there is a fight, they are the ones asking for reconciliation. The champion reminds the other...

Boundaries with Friends When You Are In Counseling

So you’re in counseling. Whether that’s on your own or as a couple and some of your friends know about it. That’s great, right? We always want to have the support of others. But what about when your friends have strong opinions about your life and...

70 Questions to Ask Your Spouse During Quarantine

Let me be the first to say that you do not need to get to know your spouse better during this time. There are a lot of shaming articles saying what you should be doing during stay-at-home orders. Don’t fall for the “should” traps. If you want to get...

Change Your Relationship By Doing This

Corrin Voeller, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist So your relationship is struggling. Maybe you are constantly fighting or taking small jabs at each other. Every little thing turns into a disagreement. It’s like you can’t win. Or maybe you guys barely...

When Should You Start Couples Therapy?

Corrin Voeller How do you know when you need some outside help? It’s a tough question and one I think a lot of people grapple with. It’s common to fight in a relationship. It’s common to have disagreements. It’s common to have good periods and...

The Complaint Trap

Corrin Voeller The complaint trap. It’s when you get stuck just complaining about what you don’t like instead of telling your partner it is that you want. It sounds like this “I hate when you leave your clothes on the floor.” “We never go...